For starters no talking to her for at least 24 hrs, you are angry and nothing good will come of it. Whenever you get bombed - duck and cover - take care of of yourself and your kids.

Next time we tell you that you are getting set up, birdnesting BS, then please listen. You were to worried about upsetting her and what did it get you?

[quote]So, her response was "well if you call OM's W" then everything is off the table./quote]

Don't believe that for a second. She is testing you. Don't take any action right now but know that it is BS. She will respect you when you stand up for yourself. Try to get some sleep, pray, take care of yourself and the kids and check in tomorrow.

Plenty to do later. Right now manage your energy. Act like you are getting ready for a meet. Have a open mind and remember that others here have experience in dealing with this. Ask questions, pay attention and hustle. You can handle it.

Cheers
Coach


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.