MissH, It sounds best to not speak to X's grandmother much any more.
So very little regard for your feelings. I mean, why does she want to tell you such things? It is inconsiderate at the least and a sort of rub-your-face-in-it at worst.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D