Thanks Gardener....After I posted this to you, I went to catch up on your thread and saw that you have wonderful beliefs...I still think you should go on the retreat
As for H...He is not involved unless he absolutely has to be, that is mostly why I was weighing telling him at all...I did inform him our little one has the swine flu and was very ill, he did text everyday (except yesterday and today), however he never even bothered to see him...That speaks volumes to me about how far he has really fallen.
I respect your advice and appreciate this answer - "While certainly wrong, it wasn't major. Clearly he's acting out some of his own pain. He and I handled it. It's water under the bridge now."
I will do it this way.
Prayers & Hugs for you
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~