Oh, I'm glad you all don't think I was over-reacting. When I read the email I was a bit stunned. I have struggled this evening with whether I did the right thing or morally did I owe him the money as it isn't in my nature to be like this but the fact he asked was just bs.
I put thought into the tack I should take in the email as I didn't want to sound like a nag or an 'I told you so' mother. I read it to a friend before I sent it and he (wanted to get a male perspective on it) said, 'there we go, that's the Jules we all know, about bloody time'
Ali, you are right about the insensitivity. My thoughts were 'yep, it is just all about you eh'. He really isn't the man I married. I just wanted to say that I wouldn't have made this gross misjudgement. He was lovely, with integrity at one time honest
