She said when she left that she didn't hate me...and she's told me several times since then that she does hate me. She told me when she left that she wasn't a vindictive person...and she's shown me several times since then that she is. She said it was wrong to badmouth each other to the kids in situations like this...and she has badmouthed me a lot to our kids since then. She would be congenial to me at times since the separation...then the next time I saw her she acted like she hated me!?
Mood switches stemming from confusion, guilt, anger, etc. are part of the deal. Sometimes I think they get mad and find faults to justify their actions.
Just keep the focus on your game.
Last edited by orangedog; 10/19/0910:27 PM.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
