Originally Posted By: GH31
Hi there FWAW,

I hope you've been keeping well.

How do you feel now that your W has stopped begging to come home, at least for now?

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It does seem fair that she can react in the manner that she has though having done what she's done. But then again, no one said life was fair.


Hmmm...

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So, it seems (unless she's doesn't really mean it) that the dating/reconciliation option is once again off the table.


For some reason I smell attempts at control and manipulation here.

No idea why wink



I'm glad she stopped begging to come home. I would rather she works on the right reason to come home and stop w/ the B.S.

It is my belief that because she cannot have total control-i.e. I refused to add her as a friend and delete this other woman who is just a friend from my FB account that leads me to believe there are control issues and if she was to come home she would further stipulate restrictions on who I can talk to. Not something I could live with. I enjoy talking to other people--especially women. That doesn't mean I'm having a relationship with them sexual or otherwise.

Oh, and I meant to say that it doesn't seem fair that she can react the way she is before. I think everyone got that though.


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!