How do you feel now that your W has stopped begging to come home, at least for now?
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It does seem fair that she can react in the manner that she has though having done what she's done. But then again, no one said life was fair.
Hmmm...
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So, it seems (unless she's doesn't really mean it) that the dating/reconciliation option is once again off the table.
For some reason I smell attempts at control and manipulation here.
No idea why
I'm glad she stopped begging to come home. I would rather she works on the right reason to come home and stop w/ the B.S.
It is my belief that because she cannot have total control-i.e. I refused to add her as a friend and delete this other woman who is just a friend from my FB account that leads me to believe there are control issues and if she was to come home she would further stipulate restrictions on who I can talk to. Not something I could live with. I enjoy talking to other people--especially women. That doesn't mean I'm having a relationship with them sexual or otherwise.
Oh, and I meant to say that it doesn't seem fair that she can react the way she is before. I think everyone got that though.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!