@ dbd - yes, if he wants to see his son, I won't stand in his way. In the future, however, I will send a KISS email that says S needs as much consistency as possible and this means letting him know when he will be here or not and what time. I want to pick my battles now and not argue.
I also know that if it comes to a custody battle, it will be better for me if H doesn't act consistent about his visitation.
Last week, H's dad was visiting from the east coast, and this week his mom is in the hospital. So, I've been flexible to accomodate these emergencies.
But this thing of threatening to take my S to his apt - I don't know until I hear from the lawyer if he can do this or not until there is a legal agreement. Anyone know?
