I was skimming back through your thread and I have not seen where anyone has laid out cake eatingto you yet. If you don't know that term yet, go through DR and read all about it. You will get lots of times where your W will act as though nothing is wrong. She will continue portraying your M as perfect to society when necessary. You are still filling some of her needs. I don't see where there is anyone else involved, have you investigated into that. Cell phone records, texting, e mails? Some of the signs of an EA seem present. One thing you said that I really dislike was her telling you that you can be the responsible one to cause the D. That is WAS script. Continue the counseling if you can, GAL, and keep the PMA. Shock
