Well, I know that she's not being honest with me about him, because she tries to tell me that there are no feelings for him, even with all of the evidence that I've found and confronted her with.

So, like I said: I assume the worst, and be willing to forgive that when the time comes. Anything else is a waste of both our time.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."