(for me, it was actually seeing my beautiful wife and mother of our four children get out of her car, and get into OM's beat-up old truck, and drive off to his house to have sex; and listening to recordings of her having sex with him and him telling what a "little slut" she is, and her LIKING it).
In my case, I don't know for sure that anything happened between my wife and the OM when he came to visit; until she tells me for sure, it's easier to assume that something did without knowing any details, and forgive her for that in my heart.
Still, I feel awful for you Puppy and I'm glad that you and your wife are working to reconcile.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
