Thats all sounds great? Good you saw friends and had a fun night out together!
Hey I'm with Mish and Kat.. maybe you just have to pay attention to the good stuff and push the bad thoughts gently away for now. But yes, you will have questions and want answers, of course. Dont forget the key principle there though (and the advice you gave me!).. you have to have some good times first, fun, romance, do some rebuilding and you get to stage 4 - recommittment.. THEN its safe to go back over the past. Plus he needs to know its safe to talk openly too.. my bf was very concerned in the early days that if he opened up and fessed up too much too soon, I may not want him back ! You have to take account of that too, despite his pride at winning you back, he may still feel a little skittish about your reactions?
Wow though K, look how far you came. Remember what we said, after everything thats happened, a 3 year affair, a 2 year separation, all the hurt and the messiness of it and yet.. the basic, soulful connection you share is still intact (ok, stretched) and the love is still there. Amazing huh?? xx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
