OK - well thanks to everyone for getting back to me on that. I don’t know, like clueless said, if the horse is out of the barn, probably not going to be able to get er back in.

I am not going to worry about it, I am just going to keep going the way I have been going, working on myself, GAL, keep reading, and just try my best to keep this thing pointing in the right direction. My biggest problem is being patient, I just want to have the big, heavy R talk and see where we stand (and see if there is a future) but I know better (it just so hard for me because that is my personality - oh well, I will just keep biting my tong.)

Thanks

NSD

Me 47
WAW 48
No Kids
M-20y
T-24y
B#1 2-20-09
B#2 4-23-09-WAW Moved Out
B#3 3-8-10-WAW Filed for D
My Sitch:http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1823907#Post1823907