Wow…. Today is my birthday and I have been attempting to coordinate to get my Ds and go to dinner with them and my mom. Coordinating with everyone is always a tough process. The X told me the other day I could get my youngest D and asked what we were doing and who all was going. I did not even mention the BDay, because she has made it a point to not to acknowledge or even say Happy Bday in the last couple of years. I just said we were just getting together and hanging out, having dinner and told her who was gong to be there.
She does ask a lot of questions for someone who does not want me to ask her anything. Whew. She emailed me today to ask what time I was going to get my D and I answered after a little bit. Later she emails me again and asks what time I was bringing her back. I again email answering her question after a little bit. She send me another saying she “Just realized it was (my) BDay. Happy Bday.”
This is a major milestone for her to say anything about the Bday. I had to read the email several times as I was in shock. Her being nice. Her saying Happy Bday. Knock on wood. She is emerging.
I just try not to get too excited about her being able to do these things, but they definitely make a huge difference for me. Just thought I would share this progress.
