Most of my efforts have been making myself a better person (not necesarily a better husband). Someone that W would be interested in, want to have a relationship with. Someone that she respects and appreciates. Listening more, talking more, respecting her more.
I still have hope that she would be interested in me. Others have suggested pulling the plug on our M. I made a commitment to me, and to her with our vows. We're going through a rough time and I'm trying to work through it. I've given her 23 years - I can give her 23 months to try and decide what she wants and needs to be happy.
