Quote: I feel like my typical response is to accept blame for everything that goes wrong in our M. But, then again, I blame him a lot too. (So, he thinks it's always his fault, I think it's always mine.)
Oh my! I thought I had the corner market on this!
My trick though was to feel like all altercations were my fault and that it was my responibility to make him happy, then save that away for another time when something unrelated would come up. I would use that in my own head to "justify" why I could now treat him poorly. And he has no idea all of this is going on.
<sigh>
I just hope someday we will get to the point where he can see that these practices are gone from me for good.
