Thanks Jack three beans!! No, actually I was looking for hope that it wasn't too late, so worried it was, but now have hope again that it isn't.

I don't think I will give up until he marries her, if that happens I really think it is too late.

I am going to do all of this, and see what happens. I think I have an advantage since I moved the kids away, he misses them and when he snaps out of this he will want to be with them forsure. While he is in this MLC he has been putting the OW above everything and everyone else even our kids!! But, he claims he crys for them each day, so we will see, I am just goint to STFU, be patient, and show forgivness which I can and will do!! Thanks so much for the boost, I needed to hear it isn't too late after all I have done wrong.

A


Me-40
XH-44
T-21
M-18
Div-19 mo.
D-18,S-15,D-11
Bomb-7/07 EA,PA
Mvd out-9/07-to give me space
mvd back-12/07
mvd out-7/08
back with OW since 2/08
OW broke it off-1/10
in and out of tunnel and our life since!!