I see so much of myself in your husband. He's tired. He's scared. And all he is hearing from you (and I don't mean this as a criticism, just as perspective) is "I need more."
No offense taken, because you're right, that's what I am telling him.
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He's exhausted at the end of the day, probably scared about keeping the family afloat financially, worried about his health (he knows he is running himself ragged) but he doesn't know how to break the pattern. He goes to therapy and he beats himself up. You need to find a way to reach him and change the pattern. You don't need to DB in my opinion. You need to find a way to show him the world of possibilities. At least that's what I wish my wife could have done.
This is an interesting perspective, Clueless. Can you tell me more about what you mean? What can I do for him?
