Well, we're stuck going to the neighboring state for the post sessions. It's that or wait until late January. I just don't think I can wait that long.

Our "couple" (the ones that seemed to be watching out for us) said that they could think of 2 presenters at the post session that would probably be VERY good for us to see because of our current living apart situation. They were very good about not making my H feel trapped- in that they said "Don't make any decisions right now. We haven't given you all the tools yet; and after you have all the tools, you can still decide to not continue the marriage, but at least you'll be able to discuss it together and be able to maintain a civil relationship, which you'll need to do since you have children together."

I'm super curious how the post sessions might have an effect given that this weekend seemed pretty dang intense and it didn't appear to do much...

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing