Sorry that you find yourself here, although its a safe and welcoming place to be! You said you tried a couple of DB techniques with no joy, it would be good if you could explain a bit about what you tried and what responses you got. Sounds like you have a lot going on in your M which is draining all your resources. Try and find time to read some of the threads here as it will give you some ideas and did you read all the book DR/DB?
Once you get some replies and start to tell us a bit more about you more folks will chip in advice! Welcome anyway.
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