Hoosier,

We know how you lost all connection.

Shall I review it?

Several injustices in a short period of time torpedoed your life. In the space of several months you went from a gainfully employed respected person with friends, a husband, an extended family to a betrayed discarded single mom struggling to pay the bills.

It really sucks.

If I could...I would gather a posse and beat the living crap out of your husband. I would lay waste to the OW's horse farm. I would have the rector of his church de-frocked and the bishop pay you a compensation check of $250,000 for your troubles. I might be able to accomplish the latter two things, but I don't want to go to jail for assault or property damage.

OK, then what?

In the meantime, you've got us. Rag-tag internet family that we are. Maybe we can help you develop the courage and wisdom to reach out to the right community where you are. You have my number. Call. OK?

--Theoden