Snooping, good or bad? Feeling like my W has OM

[brknheart]

I knew that anything was possible, several people have said things in my other threads regarding EA or PA. My wife has denied several times there wasnt OM. I now have reason to suspect that she may be seeing OM. We have been separated almost 2 mths now, and as far as she is concerned we are over. I guess technically she would be cheating on me, but others may say she is not since we are headed for divorce anyway. I dont want her to think she can hide things from me, so I want to know if she is seeing OM. I have an address of the suspect OM, debating on whether I should pass by the house when I think she may be there. What are the best tactics to use when snooping and trying to find out about an EA/PA? I still want my wife back, currently in the "Last resort" technique, not sure who to handle this EA/PA situation. Should I leave it alone or snoop?