I also would advice not to make either of your daughters the middle men. If W calls to talk about schedule or the girls, you should take the call, and not shuffle through them because that is not good for them.
Yes. You are right. W just called now to go over scheduling stuff. I'm in a bad place mentally with her right now. I want her to crumble and I'm not hearing that.
Patience, patience, patience. I have to remember it wasn't even two weeks ago that we had our last bad R talk.
On a positive note -- for me. I've saved up the money for the girls Christmas presents. I'm spending the same amount I did last year -- or 50 percent of what we spent together.
It'll be a good Christmas for the girls on my end. Although it will be hard on D10. She had a long talk with my cousin last night. D10 didn't realize my cousin's parents divorced when she was young and she was part of an intense struggle between the two for five years.
If things go well, that's the last time I'll hear from W this week.
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