Not wanting to be on this boat........

[Buffet]

thanks! oddly it at least makes me feel a little better that others are going thru this as well. Before finding this site I thought I was some kind of defective husband, and that others relationships were perfect.
Today she already has called a couple of times and almost acts like nothing is wrong at all. Which I guess in her world it is not. She has not said anything about our issues to anyone other than her family and one friend---who I do not like alot anyways. To the rest of the world we are supposed to look like "normal".....I wonder what this means if anything, good or bad. It is very confusing