Truly enjoy the love and warmth of your children and loved ones you will be with. Cherish this time as it goes by quickly and before you know it, the kids are grown and moved out of the house.

This will be the first Thanksgiving and Christmas H will not be with us as he is not invited. Not being mean....he needs to be there since he chose to be with someone else and her family.

Try not to dwell on the one who left you as hard as it is......

Ask the kids what they would like to make, see what they want to do...maybe they want to do something different. Now is the time to do it.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19