Thanks dday. I've already been thinking of ways to "de-wife" the house...rearranging furniture, painting, redecorating, etc. All the pictures are definitely coming down.
Yeah, somethings don't even have to be that elaborate. I had this plant on the kitchen counter that XW insisted had to be there. The dang thing was so overgrown and took up so much space (to say anything of the potential health implications), I was releaved to finally move it to a more suited location. And there wasn't anything she could say about it, and then when she realized it had moved one time when she came over, I got the, "wow, that looks a lot better there". To which, the moment she turned her back, she got a nice "Archie Bunker finger trumpet".
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11