Hey MJ... Sorry I haven't been around for a bit. Hope your spirits are high today. I liked how the other day you said "I woke up fiesty..." I love those days and have learned to really appreciate those moments when I am all about me!
Just my 2 cents on the "flowers" situation...I think its great that he noticed and actually went out of his way to actually write a note. "Congrats" ?? sigh... I would have done the same thing you did. Save the receipt, don't respond, let him wonder and just go on about your day!
You are doing great!! The OW...sounds...well...can't use the words I'm thinking heehee!
But, let me just say that things that start out in deceit and lies, don't have a very good chance....Try not to worry....she is not there for the long haul...doesn't even sound like she is the type to want to be there for the long haul.
I find that so many people have no understanding of "for better, for worse....till death do you part" you know what I mean?? It's like when it gets tough, the answer is to "get rid of it". Well, unfortunately, that does not solve the problem and I think its so short sighted....
Anyways, stay strong!! You are a warrior...having to share the same space with this version of H for over a year! Amazing!!
heehee! 
