Kimmie, I moved out the day after the bomb because that is what she wanted and I was weak at the time. I did not find the DB book or this website until a month after. I tried to move back in 1.5 months later and she had a HUGE mental tantrum! She acted like I was some kind of abuser or something. I have come to find out that that was around the time that things were "going well" with the "EA married friend". So yeah, lesson learned.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final