WAS seeing reality?

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Kimmie Lee, thank you for chiming in! Everything that you have said does have a huge place in my mind. I dont call my lawyer everyday because it costs money! I know that she will keep pushing the divorce and I am under no illusion that she is "coming around". I did go on a date that night but I have NOTHING in common with this woman. I dont know what my friends wife was thinking when they suggested her.


I am taking all that I can take from her in child support but I wont get any of it until the D is final. I told her we need to talk about splitting family photos,property,and custody and she seemed uncomfortable with it- I have no sympathy for her in this area! This is what she asked for!



I will be getting a part time job soon so that I can afford to get divorced. I will be asking in mediation for my wife to pay my legal expenses, 50/50 joint legal and physical custody, and half of ALL marital assets. This was the basis for this entire thread - will my wife see the reality of this situation if I take what is fair and mine? We will see I guess.



Oh, and there is a sweet lady at my daughters daycare that sseems to dig me. The problem is I know she is in a relationship. I would have asked her by now if she was not.