How do you know if you should save the marriage? I mean I know that this is a community committed to the idea that the default should be to save the marriage. I appreciate that. But not all should be saved right? I know MWD would argue that unless there is abuse or whatever that the marriage should be saved. But do you guys have doubts? I would love to hear from someone who has wrestled with if rather than just how a marriage should be saved.
