Yeah, I chould've been more positive when she asked me how I was doing. But she sees me running to the bathroom in the middle of the night sick to my stomach, just about every night...so I think she knows how I'm feeling.
Ugh, that's not good. How is she seeing that? You need to hide that, dude.
The first time my wife saw me crying (ok, I"ll admit: I wanted her to see it ON PURPOSE), I think it was actually GOOD. It gave her a sense of the depth of my pain, and how much I cared.
After once? Unh-uh . . . not good. It conveys "neediness," and neediness is never attractive, esp. to women.
