I think you are doing so well, that you had me confused a little bit, just think of the confusion your wife must be feeling. Keep it up, you are throwing the wrench in her perfect plans.
By the way, if my son had a waw, I do not see how I could really allow her to call me Dad. jmo
As far as not knowing what you want, who says you have to right now, just keep on doing what you are doing, and do not allow her to know what your end date is.
