Hope and heartache

[awest1217]

It is hard every day it is hard, but the key is to focus on your girls. I also would advice not to make either of your daughters the middle men. If W calls to talk about schedule or the girls, you should take the call, and not shuffle through them because that is not good for them. If it is anything else you have a right to say something like "I am glad to hear it, or thank you for telling me, but I need to go now." That way you talk about the important things, your daughters, still have the NC. You don't need your daughters resenting either of you for being put in the middle. Just be careful with that. Otherwise day by day and don't plan too far ahead because you never know what the future may bring.