Some more background info:

* I have already told her mother about the EA, as well as a couple of other close friends; part of my misguided attempts to pursue. None of them have talked to her about it -- my wife would flip if she knew I told her mom! -- but her mother will certainly be keeping a watchful eye out while she is here.
* Her mother is definitely supportive of the marriage. She saw warning signs before either of us did; I wish she'd told us then!
* I have put the Love Dare approach on hold, if for no other reason than some of the coming "dares" would be impossible to complete with her in recovery.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."