rob, as usual, this has nothing to do with tristan, and, as usual, you are projecting your issues and assumptions on to me. When I said "no matter what she did" that was not implying that I felt any of the "she"s were not accountable. I was talking about the outcome. As usual, you are wrong about me. In every example I gave, I thought those women got away with murder. The last case I was to be deposed on, I was dreading, because I quit that company to get away from that situation, and the woman was going to depose me, when frankly, I would have testified against her. She was a total manipulator. But she walked away with fifty grand. I never did get deposed. I thought the other two cases were ridiculous as well, but the woman won. I didn't say she should win, I said she did win. So who is morally accountable is not the point.
As for the rest of your lecture about me, I didn't bother reading the rest of it. I don't care what you think about me. For some reason, you seem to have some need to "correct" me personally, as if you want some kind of groveling by proxy to make up for whatever your wife did. If you disagree with my opinions, fine, but stop writing posts about me and my "issues."
I will politely tell you one time that if you continue making personal comments about me I will consider it harassment.