I know it's hard to do but I wouldn't worry too much about it you have too much proof.
I hope you are right VD! Not sure if I mentioned this Saturday or not but not an hour after he left here and our conversation with him saying his addiction is 'all in the past' he sends gf an email telling her he can't cope and if he could bring some 'pinks'....my Google research says Lortab and Vicodin come in pink. He is so far from sober its sick.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!