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[ClingingToHope]

I am just going to leave him alone. Go to the viewing and funeral of his grandma and be there for support, but no calling, texting, e-mailing, etc. Just leave him alone and see what happens.

I can't help you much here. My W is so set on divorcing and making it on her own, I don't know how I'd handle it if all of a sudden she wanted me to come back -- but only on her terms.

I love the idea of being a family soooo much it would be really tempting.

But then what would I be going home to? More tension and unhappiness with a person who doesn't want to work at making the M better.

This is going to be tough no matter which way it turns out. The others are right, this guy has no right to make demands of you. You have every right to make demands of him. He needs to grow up and I agree with the others that you need to make him grow up.

So what if he gets mad. Is that what you want in life, someone who gets mad at you and makes you walk on eggshells when they are wrong?

I pray for you today.