He has admitted he took the "easy road" and was very selfish in doing that. Then he just looked at me and said "you need to let me process all this on my own, you telling me all this isn't helping at all!"
Wow....Many many good people who have put in the work have never gotten this. If you fail to listen to this and FOLLOW it, then it's all on you. The same old YOU.
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I do have a hard time not thinking about all of it and wondering what I can do next, I am trying to stop. But, my background (college) is in figuring out what makes people tick and what they are thinking, how they are processing it, in order to help them.
Ahhh...still not quite clicking is it?
YOU CAN'T HELP HIM. You are powerless. Admit it.... Accept it, this is key. All you can do is SHOW him a honest to goodness better you.
Let go and let him do this.
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So, I cannot help but want to figure out what is inside his head and why.
Good luck with that.....HE doesn't even know for sure....MLC = craziness and confusion remember??
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I am doing good, cause like I said it is hard when you are armed with the weapon to destroy their "relationship" which is what you want so badly.
WRONG....You are armed with something that will ROYALLY PISSS HIM OFF, and make you look like a controlling arse in his eyes!!!
