Her answer is consistent. "I need some space and separateness.
Take it to heart then. Find a way. What do you really need to work - internet connection, phone? Get out of the house, it also is mysterious, shows you are listening and will help you lead.
Take off after lunch today, go work at Starbucks, the library, make it good for you.
Point taken,
It's not that easy, however. I spend most of my day collaborating via teleconferences, so I need a high speed internet connection, a hands free phone (cell phone would work) and a quiet workspace with a door that I can close.
Library is out - no phones allowed.
Coffee shops are out - Too loud, no privacy, my talking would disturb everyone else.
I have been thinking along these lines, however. I have been trying to get office space in a nearby branch office. That wouldn't really be mysterious, but it would be separation.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
