Moving on with my life!

[Startingover2]

I swear! Why does the guy insist on texting topics that I told him I will not discuss over a text?

Last night he asked if I got his text regarding baby and when he gets his license back. Once again, I said no. I really think he doesn't send the original text but just opens the door for the conversation. He asked what I thought. I said "once again, not a topic for a text message."

Looking at his email he is a serious sex addict as well. He is planning on hooking up with at least 2 women sometime soon and playing another in addition to his married gf. One girl he is talking to is an ex friend of mine who when I was dating exh was talking to him on the side. Gee, why didn't I see and believe the huge red flag then?

Enough about exh....the weekend is almost here. Should be beautiful. Wish I had money to do more, but the park and zoo are looking good!

[JAK58]

SO2

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I think I have finally let go of any love for him as I realize what a sick and manipulating man he is.[quote]

Say this three times every five minutes until it really sinks in permanently.

Im'e glad to see you working more on you in these last couple of posts.

Take care of you and children and make a great life without H!

Hugs,
JAK

[volleydog]

Looking at his email

STOP!!!!

[Startingover2]

Looking at his email

STOP!!!!

Actually I was told my my attorney that we can use those emails in court if needed.

[Startingover2]

Exh and I finally had the talk about him taking baby unsupervised.

He said now that he is getting his license back soon he wants to start taking her. I calmly and politely told him I could not allow that until he works a program and proves his sobriety from alcohol, prescription drugs, and abuse of over the counter meds for a length of time. Of course that didn't go well and he said "that was all in the past". It went back and forth and I told him the discussion was over. He told me he would see me in court.

I could hardly breathe. I am scared now. Here is to bracing for what will happen next.

[Startingover2]

I have been so stressed all weekend I can hardly function.

I really hope that I have enough on him to make this stick. I did another look at his email last night and he has 4 different women helping him. "oh you poor thing. You are so misunderstood. I don't know why people treat you so badly and hurt you. You are a great guy and a great father....blah, blah blah!" Makes me sick how he can always end up the victim. One even sent him information on Fathers Rights Groups which would suck. I have a few friends whose ex's went with these groups and all they do is stir trouble. Its all for the cause and they don't look at individual situations at all. These women are all so sucked in by him I can bet he will gather enough money for an attorney from them.

He didn't call or text about her at all yesterday. We will see what today brings and the rest of the week.

[JAK58]

SO2,

He had his chance. He hasn't been there. How could they possibly help him with the proof that you have.

You just have to keep a positive outlook. YOU HAVE PROOF.

JAK

[Startingover2]

Thank you Jak! So nice to get some positive support when I am so full of fear and doubt.

[volleydog]

I know it's hard to do but I wouldn't worry too much about it you have too much proof.

[Startingover2]

I know it's hard to do but I wouldn't worry too much about it you have too much proof.

I hope you are right VD! Not sure if I mentioned this Saturday or not but not an hour after he left here and our conversation with him saying his addiction is 'all in the past' he sends gf an email telling her he can't cope and if he could bring some 'pinks'....my Google research says Lortab and Vicodin come in pink. He is so far from sober its sick.