Good weekend of GAL. Had a great Saturday down at the festival. And a lovely dinner. It was a great date. And it ended nice and early at 7:30 PM. During the day bumped into some common friends and it just felt weird introducing my 'date' to them. Got a few strange looks as well from the common friends. I bought two new paintings to hang up at the house. That night I went over to a good friends house and just had a fun night of pints and conversation. On Sunday. I uploaded a few pictures to facebook of the festival and my 'date' I did some painting and went out to dinner with two friends and ended up helping one of them out with their breakup. She was completely broken hearted so I told her about DB'ing and the principals of GAL. So I think I really helped. All in all a great weekend. I am back to work tomorrow. So I gotta get back into that swing. Coming up on 2 months since D-Day. Wow I have come along way.
Got some goals this week and looking for some advice. 1. The house. Sell or keep. I am leaning towards keeping it. To do that will require me to buy her out. From our last conversation was is under the impression that I want to sell it. But I like the house and the neighbourhood. I know I can make new memories here. This will require a new mortgage for myself to take on. I have been sitting on this for a few weeks. But need to make a decision. 2. Finalize the seperation papers. Right now they are ready to sign but I would need to update them with what ever happens in point one. I have been taking my time on that as well.
Well going to continue to Plan B while this is going on. GAL will continue. Asking for advice will continue as well.
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