I've been down this path before. More than once. And so far it has been a cheeseless tunnel
Her answer is consistent. "I need some space and separateness. You work from home, so you could work from somewhere else too. You can help by going and living at and work from your parents house for a while? or your brothers? or get yourself assigned to a project that takes you out of town for a couple of months..."
Her solution is always that I go away, but otherwise leave her life untouched.
Addition with edit: You are right, I could approach it this wey.
Given that we are living together and loving the same children and we can't get divorced and given that I am not moving out, what are your ideas on what we can do to make things better. Let's make a plan.
Last edited by Thinker; 10/19/0902:32 PM.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
