Originally Posted By: karen43
I was wanting to email X and ask him to provide me with the info for her projects/reports and her grades. I think both parents should know about her projects so they can help her out when at each home. D9 said something about a pie chart with her progress(don't know what that is) and there's the class newsletter I don't get from him.

He constantly emails how I don't want the kids to succeed in ps, but he does stuff like that, which seems like he's more interested in keeping me out of the loop than D9 getting her stuff done. I was thinking about emailing him that I need that info, and doing a blind copy to my L? Ideas on that?


DO NOT e-mail him, especially based on your belief, go straight to the school! E-mail the home room teacher and cc all her others if applicable gently stressing taht you ARE NOT receiving the information being sent home. Keep ANY and ALL personal feelings out of it. This WILL show your interest in them succeeding as well as prevent any more potentail disasters in the regard of missing work. Karen, I made sure that was the first thing I did and I KNOW I told you to do so a long long time ago, why haven't you?!?! That's not going to look so good in court, get on it!

As far as barring OW from the court room, unfortunately not. Unless the judge sees her as a disruption, then she's more than welcome. I only got to have OM 'removed' when he budded into a negotiation between XW and mine's attorneys and BOTH attorney's told him to get lost.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11