Thank you, but every time I try to set boundaries he gets mad. Says I am controlling him. He said yesterday before he left that he needs help. He needs to find a counselor and said wanted to read DR. He said that he noticed that I am happier after reading it, and I am, but him leaving again after being gone for 5.5 months then home for two weeks and me doing everything in my power to show him I was all in, I am weak and did not make the best decisions. Now he is emotional and I just don't know. I am just going to leave him alone. Go to the viewing and funeral of his grandma and be there for support, but no calling, texting, e-mailing, etc. Just leave him alone and see what happens.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89