Augtan,

We can all spend hours and hours blaming the OW for al of the hell that we have gone through.

We can blame her for breaking up our family, we can blame her for hurting our children.

The bottom line is this, your Husband also has a part in the demise of your marriage.

You have to stop blaming, stop focusing on her, stay away from her EX and start acting as if they do not exist.

If you and your Husband are ever to reconcile, it will be a brand new relationship, and that means letting go of the past.

(((hugs)))

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.