We had a very nice weekend. It was D5's (now to be known as D6) birthday, so we took her to a nearby waterpark. My parents and siblings met us for a little party afterward. It was the first time W saw them since the separation. She was very insecure about meeting them, as I am from a relatively conservative family and she is afraid of what they may think of her. Anyway, it meant a lot to me that she was overcame her fears and went anyway. She said she felt "awkward" but that she did have a good time.
She asked last night if we could come up with a plan on how to move her stuff back into our home. She has already started thinking of how we can fit all the new furniture in. These are all good signs that show a commitment to our marriage. I find it all reassuring.
This site has been wondreful. However, I do not know if "Divorce Busting" is the correct name. Divorces are rarely busted in a defining moment. Rather, they fizzle slowly away until there is nothing left. I can't point to a moment where this marriage turned. However, I do feel good about our direction now.
