Wow. 180 city. I told him under no circumstances will he insult me (calls me a"nut job" frequently) if there are to be any legal negotiations or otherwise. I also said I would take the papers to my lawyer and I told him it was in my own best interest. When he started criticizing me for going off the rails, I said he has the same problem and has no place to criticize.

I really laid down the law with him. I feel scared, but proud of myself.

Last edited by Hope4Luv; 10/19/09 04:15 AM.

Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship