Moving merrily down the tunnel

[kjensen]

Hi D,
I don't think you slipped by showing our wife compassion and care. I think when it happens naturally, those moments can be an important reminder to our spouses that we do care and are there for them.

Sometimes I get the feeling from her that there's a wall between her and I that she wants to get past but she doesn't know how.

You are probably right. The hard part is watching them struggle through it on their own, but that's the only way..