I may have missed it, but why were you the one to move out? WAW wants the D, let her do all the heavy lifting. You should have gotten with your lawyer immediately and gotten court-mandated spousal maintenance.
Stop worrying about taking money from her because that is not what's happening. She has been wasting MARITAL ASSETS on someone other than her own husband and children. And stop responding to every little batting of the eyelashes. She is cake-eating. Stop accepting any little crumb she throws your way. Stop trying to read into every little thing.
And STOP TAKING ORDERS FROM HER JUST BECAUSE YOU'RE AFRAID OF MAKING HER MAD!! Who gives a sh!t if she's mad? Does she ever care about how she is making you feel? Get every single dime in child support that you are entitled too and stop feeling guilty about it.
Women make me sick and I am embarrassed to be one when I hear about crap like this. They want to be all independent and respected, and then they pull this sh!t.."Oh poor little me....how could a husband take "my" money....."
And since when is this all about her, anyway? She has torn apart a family with two small children. What king of a woman does that?
When a WAW starts acting all nicey-nice, watch out! They want something/someone, and it's not you. Also, no news is always bad news. You don't hear from her atty or yours for awhile? So? You will, and it will be more of the same, advancing the divorce process.
