Yeah, I think we're both starting to see things we wouldn't face before. Had her over for dinner tonight. We talked, and we are both wanting to go slow and do it right this time. I know she likes the changes I am making in myself but she wants to make sure it will last. Can't blame her, and I want to see us BOTH go to C, individually and as a couple eventually.

Ron

M: 47
W: 50
D: 19
S: 16
Grandson: 21 months (now officially our son)
Married: 10/2/89
Divorced: 7/31/09
XW moved back home 11/12
Re-married 5/25/10