I also wanted to add that I am fighting an unfair fight similar to yours Future. My mother in-law is a child therapist and her husband is an old school marriage councelour. He told me 3 days after the bomb that when people come to marriage counceling it is usually "already too late." These things make it very hard to get through to her.


Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final